January Reading basket

How can we be down one month in 2017 already.... hard to believe.  We we have done a reading basket for a few years now... I'm just now getting around to posting about it.  And I hope to do so
each month so you know what we are reading.  So here what was in our basket it past month.

Let's Go, Froggy!  By Jonathan London
Teasing Trouble By Valerie Tripp
Pooh Just Be Nice... and get ready for bed!  By Shelagh Canning
Pooh A Perfect Little Piglet  By Rita Balducci
Skippy Jon Jones in the Dog House  By Judy Schachner
I was a Third Grade Spy  By Mary Jane Auch
Barbie Girl's Best Friend  By Rita Balducci
Prayers For Children  By Jane Werner Watson
101 Dalmatians Proud To Be A Pup  By Ronald Kidd
The Adventures of Andy Ant The Swimming Hole Disaster  By Gerald D. O'Nan
Seven Blind Mice  By Ed Young
The Ant Bully  By John Nickle
The Berenstain Bears and the Ghost of the Forest By Stan & Jan Berenstain
The Little Goat  By Judy Dunn
A Big Fat Enormous Lie  By Marjorie Weinman Sharmat
Lamb Chop's Fables You Can Do It, Lamb Chop!  By Shari Lewis
Winnie The Pooh's Thanksgiving  By Bruce Talkington
A Winnie the Pooh First Reader Pooh's Halloween Parade  By Isabel Gaines
The Mitten  Adapted By Jan Brett
Thabo & Kanoni  Apart of the Tales From the Serengeti
Disney Winnie the Pooh How Do You Hop So High?  By K. Emily Hutta
Daisy Dare  By Anita Jeram
The Biggest Pumpkin Ever  By Steven Knoll
The Dog Who Had Kittens  By Polly M. Robertus
Barbie Shooting for the Stars  By Karen Stillman & Victoria Saxon
Sheep Trick or Treat  By Nancy Shaw
Pooh Just Be Nice.... To your little friends!  By Caroline Kenneth
Gregory, the Terrible Eater  By Mitchell Sharmat
Take me out to the Ballgame  By Maryann Kovalski
Commotion in the Ocean  By Giles Andreae and David Wojtowycz
Sesame Street The Count's Number Parade  By Norman Stiles

This month the girls will be filling the basket!!  I think it will be fun to see what they put in and want to read.

Christmas books!!

It was the last day in November and I sat for an hour wrapping up books just so the girls would have something to unwrap each day till Christmas.  All but two of the books they have seen and read many many times before...  They love it and love not knowing what book they will get to read that night.  :) I do not pick out a read aloud for the month of December, but we just enjoy reading all our Christmas books that we gotten over the years.  Here is a look at the books we have enjoyed over the month.

Tallulah's Nutcracker By: Marilyn Singer
God Gave Us Christmas By: Lisa Tawn Bergren
Where is Baby's Christmas Present? By: Karen Katz
'Twas the Night Before Christmas By: Clement C. Moore
The little Engine that Could and the Snowy, Blowy Christmas By: Watty Pipper
Guess Who's Coming to Santa's for Dinner? By: Tomie DePaola
Coca Cola The Night Before Christmas: A Family Treasury of Songs, Poems, and Stories
Who is Coming to Our House?  By: Joseph Slate and Ashley Wolff
The Christmas Unicorn: A little girl, a magical friend, a perfect Christmas  By: Anna Currey
Rudolph's Second Christmas  By: Robert L. May
Mary's Baby   By: Jane Chapman
The Christmas Snowman   By: Rand McNally
Sesame Street Merry Christmas Elmo!
Fun to Read fairy tales The Twelve Days of Christmas
The Biggest, Most Beautiful Christmas Tree  By: Amye Rosenbery
A Christmas Sonata  By: Gary Paulsen
Merry Christmas, Amelia Bedelia   By: Peggy Parish
Jingle Cats  By: Michael MeDermott
Treasury of Illustrated Classics The Night Before Christmas and other Holiday Tales
How Santa Got His Job  By: Stephen Krensky
Mickey's Christmas Carol  Based on Charles Dickens' Classic Story
A Night in Santa's Great Big Bag  By Kristin Kladstrup and Tim Jessell

This years books:
Minions Snow Day  By: Brandon T. Snider
Shopkins A Merry Shopkins Christmas  By: Meredith Rusu

And for added fun because our girls have ask question and like to learn new things.
My First Kwanzaa  By Karen Katz
I Have a Little Dreidel  By: Maxie Baum

We love books and to read.  I have made list of the books that we would read for the month and posted on here.  And then we end up doing something different.  So this year I'm going to try something a little different this year.  I'm going to keep a list of the books that the girls read and the ones that we read aloud.  At the end of the month I will make a blog post with the list and a few words on a few of them.  I hope that works better for me.  :)

We would love to hear what your favorite Christmas books are.

New Years word is Health....

With New Years Eve less than a week away, I have been thinking of all that I would like to get done next year.  I hope that we have a better year than we did this past year.  For the past few years I have seen friends pick a word for the year, and I have never did it..... till this year.  :) 2017 word of the year is going to be HEALTH!!  I can not wait to see what this will do for me and my family.  What will it mean to spend a year on the health of myself, my family, my relationships, my house keeping, and even the health with my Lord and my Bible.

I have taken steps to start now, and setting people to check in with... because I know I need someone to keep me going.  When we think of Health we all most all think of fitness and food.  So I will start there.  And this year I do have goals of a healthier eating and getting out more.  My sister-in-law and I will be working on the food thing together states a part.  She will make one week of healthy meals and I will make one.  We will get the 2 weeks of meals for only a little of our time.  I hope to post some of them on here for you all to see what we will be eating.  I'm not sure what she is thinking, but I know for us we will have 1 meatless night each week.  And will try to get lots of fruits and veggies in each day.  Should be a fun way to help each other out.  And two minds are better than one.  I will be tracking my water intake.  I will not say NO ________, I want it to be something that I can keep doing.  I do not want to it to be a diet, but a way of life.

As for fitness and health I myself will have a been working on a plan and have a great friend who is really full of info and has given me some great workouts that I have done for a while now.  And I have plans to sit down with the girls and have them help me with a plan for them and things that we can do together as a family.  I'm sure as the year goes on if not right away Lottie and I will talk and bounce ideas off each other.  I know one of the goals that the girls have is to ride 500 miles on their bikes this year.  Jessalla has been wanting me to take her running, but that means that I need to run with her.  I'm praying about that, I would love to do that with her.  I'm just not sure if I have it in me to take up running, at my age.

I want and need to take time with my friends and family.  I will do my best to work hard and keep my relationship healthy.  Take may mean I have to say no to people sometimes.  And that is okay and will be the best for us all in the outcome.  Having play dates, and sending birthday cards are part of the plan.  Sending notes and text letting them know that I'm thinking and praying for them is more of the plan.  I will work hard to keep my relationships health and to remove the unhealthy ones.  My relationships go down to my kids and impact them also.

My house and healthy..... Just stay with me.  :)  I will take the whole year, yes all 52 weeks to clean out and decluttering  my house.  I have a friend doing this with me.  I hope to be able to keep up with it and have a happier and healthier house at the end.  I also will be coming up with a cleaning list for myself and the girls.  This is something that I have been working on for years and need to find a plan that works for me.  A few months ago I got a book from a friend and I have been working on a few ideas that I got from the book and guess what.... it is working!!!  :)

My health with my Lord and my Bible time!  This one puts a smile on my face ever time I think about it.  But yes I need to work on it.  my health with my Lord is less than what I would like.  This area has a few area within it.  My prayer time, Bible reading and understanding, study and worship.  I have a prayer book and use it well.  But I could be better at prayer.  Reading my Bible is a down fall for me I love reading it but at the same time I reread the same thing over again all the time.  Not that it's unhealthy but it could be healthier and my understanding would be better if I would read more.  So I'm looking hard and praying about what and how to study it.

What is your word for the 2017?  I would love to hear and how you will use it.  And I pray that you all have a healthy 2017 in many ways!!!

2016.... looking back at all the good times!!

Looking back on 2016....

Eammah's birthday gift from Papa and Grammy
Having the day with them, and Art with Mrs. Shelby
and Aunt Taylor

   Man ooo Man where to start??  What about January....  We bought in 2016 at a friends house with some of our church family.  We had a great time just talking and hanging out.  It was a cold winter, and we tried to stay warm hanging out inside.

Birthday dinner with the mouse

What a great show!!

 Eammah turn 7!  7!!  How did that happened?!?!  I'm not sure!  But she is, and this year we did not do a big party, but at Christmas Santa had bought us all Disney on Ice tickets.  And the show was just a week after Eammah's birthday so we spent the day down in Grand Rapids.  Let her pick something out at the mall and we ate at Chuck E Cheese!  And the girls had a great time playing games.  And the show was great!!  We were right on the ice no one in our way!!  She had a great day and loved the time we poured out on her.  A few years back I ask her how she would like to give back and for the most part it's always been the same thing, but I'm okay with that.  She is thinking about others and that is what I'm wanting. This year again we did something for the staff at church.  I have had a hard time getting cards in the mail the last few years so we miss a few birthdays this month.  I hope that I can get back at it and remember to get them in the mail.

February is here!!  It's the month of love!  RED WHITE AND PINK!!  Really the Disney on Ice show was this month but it's okay!  We had a low key month it was still cold and winter outside.  The girls were enjoying being out and playing in the yard. We did our normal things over the month.  Had some time with friends and family.  The girls were able to make and race their cars again with the other Awana kids at church.  And are looking forward to doing it next year in just a few weeks.

the upstairs 

March had so much going on!  One of the best things is that I was able to spend my brother's birthday with him, have not done that in years!!  It was so nice to have that time with him.  Even with all that was going on.  Easter was in march this past year and we were able to make the rounds to see family and whatnot.  We went to church Easter morning and then down to my grandma Bills' to be with all the family.  We had closes on our house in town earlier this month, and the day after Easter we were working on the house taking down walls and cleaning it out.  That is when I got the phone call to come home.  My sweet Mama Beth would go to be with The Lord that night.

April -  We started off this month getting our feet back under us and getting ready for Matthew's birthday at the end of the month.  My days were laid out a little different now but I still had the girls and they were dancing.  And had a show coming up in June!!

Jessalla's Birthday treat
out to Papa and Grammy!

May - Was another big month for a Landers girl!!  Jessalla turned 10!!! She is so sweet and loving!  Again we did not have a party.  But just spent the day with her.  We sign the girls up for camp this month and they would go at the end of June and the start of July.  Eammah would be going for a mini week!!  Her and I were not sure about that.  But I did not show her that!

June - OOO man!  It's summer and we are in dance show mind 100%!  It's going to be a great show.  And then I got yet another phone call.... My sweet Grandma Jean had passed away.  I remember that day and it was nuts, yes we live in Michigan and the weather is nuts.  But that day we had hail that day.  😲 So the same day that we said goodbye to one of the people that was a big part of my world, the girls also dance at their show.  I'm so thankful for our dance family.  I was able to walk into the school were my dad and Sharon met us with food and feed us and Sharon came in the back with me and helped me get things set up for the girls.  Another mom that I have known for years now... her and her daughter came and did the girls hair and makeup in no time.  And I was just able to sit.  I love them, they are a sweet family and love that our lives are crossing path again.  Jessalla went to camp at the end of the month and had a great time!!  She would go the full summer if she could.  Matthew's parents Phil and Dixie came in and was able to pick up Jessalla from camp.  So we stay up there a little longer showing them around and letting the girls tell them what it was like.

July - started with us dropping Eammah off at camp.  And me crying.  And a few days later going back up to get her.  She had a great time!!!  We got to see Dixie's side of the family and spent the day at a camp ground with them all.  Riding this fun bikes all over, spending the day talking and hanging out.  Matthew's grandma could paint!!  Well, very WELL!!  One of Matthew's aunts bought some paintings that she had done and ask if there was one that we would like.  So now we have a snow covered barn hanging in our living room!!  LOVE it!!  While Phil and Dixie were here for 3 weeks they were able to help on the house and we got lots done.  It was just great!!  The girls are doing 4-h and had their first show ever!!  They loved it!  And it was also Matthew, Phil and Dixie first show!  lol!!  They were not a 4-h family so it was all new for them.  It was a little new for me just because they do not show horse but Llamas!! They are a great show and loved it!!  Jessalla got Grand Champion!!

#18 for their favorite Youth Pastor!!

Eammah fish for the afternoon
she was a little sad that Layton would
not cook them up for her.

August - A week of fair at Evart, was not as much fun as it was as I remember it as a kid!!  lol  They had a great time we were able to be up there and see some of the teens from our youth group show their animals.  Take in some rides eat some treats and show their llamas!!  They had a great time at the fair and can not wait till next year!!  We had an over night with the youth group at a cabin out at a lake.  They had a great time, swimming, fishing Bible study!  Eammah spend one time we were having lake time just fishing.

September - We are now back into school for a month and going strong!  We are homeschooling again this year.  Awana is starting back up, and so is youth group.  We got some great bike rides in.  Not as many as we would like, and will try harder next year to get more in.  The girls had their last show this month.  It was just a weekend long.  And all I will say I'm just glad this was not their first show.  I'm so Thankful for the help I have this year at Awana!

October it's fall!!  This year is flying by in many ways and going so slow in others.  This is the second year that the girls have loved on both of our pastors for the full month!  Each day they did something for them.  I'm glad we are back in town.  Cards, baked goods, homemade things.  The girls were back dancing for a few weeks again, after having the summer off.  And we got two old dance outfits for Halloween!  They went as pink ladies!!!  I love that movie!!  We spent a lot of time raking, and raking and when we were thinking we were done we raked some more.  We only have 8 to 10 tree but they are BIG trees.

November it should be cold, right?  It was so nice here in Michigan.  Birthday dinner, family time, and more dance.  We have a very full birthday month this month!!  9 birthdays!!!  And I still did not get them all!!  I got most so it's all good!!  The girls wanted to both dance for the Christmas show for we had extra dance this month to work on that.   Our church does mission month also so we have different missionaries in each week to talk and let us know what they are doing.  It's so much fun and we all enjoy it.  This year we had a family come that we just click with so well.  And have been able to stay up with each other.  And they home school also and use some of the same things we do.  Just a nice gift from The Lord that I needed.  Thanksgiving week our church does a big dinner on Monday!  It's always a great time just to sit down and talk with people that we see each week but may not have time to talk to, or get to deep.  Thanksgiving was dinner at my Grandma Bills.

December was still nice out till about the 11th!!  Then we got a snow, and I think it will stay around for awhile.  On the 10th we had our first Christmas of the year!!  I know so early, it was back down to my Grandma Bills.  The girls love have that time with family.  I need to work hard to get them together more.  We have only 1/2 a tree this year.... the girl's papa Scott gave them a kitten who has made it her life goal to kill the big green monster that has taken over her living room!!  So this years Christmas tree is a hot mess.  lol!!  We are okay with it for the most part.  Other than that we have nothing up and it's the 16th!!  Phil and Dixie will be in tomorrow till the 26th!  I hope to get some things up before they get here. TOMORROW!!!  LOL!!  Who am I kidding!! We have 1/2 a tree!!  We have kinda full week why they are here... I tried not to make it so bad it just did not workout that way.  On the 18th our church is doing it's Christmas play with the kids.  And both girls are in it.  We have plans to give back at a store around here.  The girls have speech class on Tuesday, Dance on Thursday and also Art class then.  Friday we are going out with our church to sing. Christmas eve we are at home but have family food chop going on with dinner that night. Jessalla will be reading again this year on Christmas eve.  We are planning on opening a few things Christmas Eve.  Christmas morning we will get up and open up whatever Santa leaves us and make it to church by 10:30.  Both girls will be singing Christmas morning.  I know we will get some good time in with them.

Not sure where we will ring in the New Year.

Eammah - is 7 and in 2nd grade.  She went to camp this summer over night!  That is big for her.  She is growing so much trying new things with camp, showing llamas, and even new dance class this fall.  She is doing great in school!  She started off 2nd grade not reading much at all and now just a few weeks in reading so great.  Pickup any book she can and just reading it.  Can not wait to see what is to come for her this next year.

Jessalla - is 10 and in 5th grade.  She went to The Springs Camp 2 times once over the winter for an overnighter and once this summer for a week.  She is getting so tall and becoming a beautiful young lady!!  She takes a full load of dance, taking all she can and asking for more!!  We both love that her dance teacher is willing to help her grow, as a dancer, a young lady and in The Lord.  She is doing great in school this year and working a head in some places.

Matthew - is taking college class at Baker, still working for the USPS.  Looking at another job, we hope to know more on that in the new year.  And working on the house as much as he can.

As for me.... I keep myself busy.  With school for the girls, running them to 4-h, church, and dance things.  I teach cubbies at church on Sunday nights over the school year, and help with the youth group as much as I can.

This year has been a hard year, we lost 9 people in a short time, we made a move into a house that we are working on.  We are not all into Christmas this year with good reason.  But even in all the bad we had going on.  God showed us his love, and the love of others.  God has given us the people we need to help us make it.  We may have felt all alone but he never left our side.  He is FAITHFUL always!  As we close out this year we pray for each and all our friends and family that you have a great 2017!  We look forward to all the good that God has planned for us each and as a family.

Grandma Jean 

Merry Christmas and Happy New Years from Our Home to Yours!!

Me and Mama Beth summer 2015

 Both will live in our hearts always!

If this is your first holiday without a love one, our heart and prayers go out to you.

not easy to talk about....

I wanted to take sometime to share some things that I have been dealing with for a long time, and it's anxiety.  And not just that it comes with panic attack, over thinking everything!  It's something I have been dealing with for years and have found ways to not have them take over.  But in the last few months it's been much more, and harder for me to deal with.  It can be something that has nothing to do with me that will set me off.  Here a few things.....

Facebook - I like that I can keep up with friends and family all over the world but at the same time it's hard for me.  When I write to a friend and with facebook telling you that they seen it and when.  But they have not wrote back.  I start to think of what I could have done wrong.  Should I not have ask how they were doing?  I have work myself into being sick.  Sometimes it's their kids that see it and not them, sometimes it maybe that they just happened to have it pulled up when I wrote but never did see it.  And I can tell myself that, but it does not always help and lately it's been harder.  A facebook post can do the same thing, when a friend post something about being upset with a friend.  I can be mostly sure that it has nothing to do with me.  And the same thing will happen.  And if it's the same person that does both things, I can work myself up into a mess where at times my life has to stop because I just can not move on.  All in fear of making friend more upset than they already are at "me".  Even if it's not me at all.  But I do not want to do anything that would add to it.  And I feel like I need to fix it.... even if it's not anything to do with me.

Another things that is a big trigger for me is when I feel unappreciative.  But I do not get mad, I go into thinking what did I not do, what could I have done better!  And even if I know they are appreciative and thankful for all the work I do.  But I sometimes over think it.  It leads me to asking more questions.  Or maybe taking on more things.  I know it's a little backwards but I'm very much a people pleaser.  I want to make everyone happy, and will do so even if it makes me unhappy.  

As much as it used to happen I would work it out and keep on going.  But this year has been long and hard on us.  At some point in it I think I stop dealing with what was going on, so now I'm dealing with anxiety, panic attack, and much more now and it's harder for me to deal with.  I'm not sure why it's so much harder to deal with outside of the fact I just stop dealing with things.  There is much more that I should deal with that may help.

But I say this to you, because I'm not the only one that deals with this.  Maybe the only one that handles it the way that I do.  Here is the thing We have a great God who loves us!  If we remember to give it all to him.  Thanksgiving was yesterday and I was having a hard day, and was able to sit and have sometime with God before the rest of the family got up and around.  As much as it was a hard year God has always been with me.  He showed me how great he is!  He gave me people that I can turn to and ask for prayer. People that help me and build me up.  Help me grow in The Lord, they walk with me and help me.  Even in times of anxiety and panic attack God is great all the time and all the time God is great!  And even in those times I can give Thanks to God for all he done, and know that he will use this for his good!

Mom of the year!!!..... well maybe not!

If you would have ask my daughter last night she would have told you that I was going for mean mom of the year!! I would have told you I felt like I was also. It was what we have come to call a somewhat normal Tuesday in October. Which means the girls have something to give/do/ say to our pastors at our church, and we could have a soccer game. Which we did last night. So we spent the morning like we do every other weekday doing school and the girls had pick to make muffins for our Pastors that day. So we were getting that all done. We ran things over to the church only a few blocks from our house, but we still feel the need to drive. In part due to that fact the girls are home-schooled I still feel funny having them out and about during “School” hours. Even if we had finish for the day, or more. But we did drive over and handle out their muffins and the girls were able to help with a job that they have come to love. Folding pizza boxes. I know, right! But there is a Pizza Place here in the town we live that if you bring back in 10 pizza boxes you get a medium for $2! So needless to say our youth group is glad to take pizza boxes off the hands of those in our church. We left the church 45 minutes after getting there. Which for us is a fast trip and I was able to drop the girls back off at the house with their dad to eat lunch and have their reading time. I was off to have lunch with a friend and just talk about life. I was back home 45 minutes later and helped the girls with their Awana verse and clean up from lunch. We were all outside helping Matthew with some yard work. That’s were we spent the rest of our afternoon. Matthew left for class and the girls and I stay at what we were working at and finish a few things. Before we knew it it was time to make dinner and get around for the soccer game.

That’s when things went from normal to bad! You see we have moved into our house this summer back in June, and have been working on it so we are only living in part of the house and still have boxes. We will just say that it is less than ideal. I ask Jessalla to go and get her soccer things around and get them on so we could leave after dinner. An hour before she needs to be at her game, she tells me she can not find her shirt. Dinner was almost, so I sent the girls in different ways looking for it and I finish dinner. Then I went behind both girls looking again once dinner was done. Checking the wash, dressers, and any other place I could think of. An hour of looking we are in the truck, with no dinner, no soccer shirt and a kid that does not want to go and is crying about being late, and not having what she needs. And mad at me that I’m making her go! I fully understand how she was feeling and wanted more than anything to say okay we do not need to go. But I did not, I made her go, telling her all the way that she needed to do this because her team was counting on her, even if she could not play. They needed her to cheer them on and support them. Most of all they needed to know that they could count on her. We made it to the game just as they were starting, and as we got out she started crying again and with a hug and one more little talk we walk to the fence and I sent her on her way.

On the way home things were better and we were able to talk on the good things from the game and whatnot. It maybe years before she see the full picture but most of all she knows that it was done out of love. And as I was writing this she was still talking about how hard it was for her to have to sit on the sidelines why all her friends were playing and how sad she felt. She was able to able to look at 1 Corinthians 10:31 which read: Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God. We all have things that are hard for us to do, or things we just do not do because it’s to hard. Ask God to hold your hand, and PRAY! Just like the WWJD bracelets from the 90’s.

She has one more game this week on Thursday, and she found her shirt. We all walked away with a better understanding of what it is to give glory to God in all that we do.

Mother's day wonderful wisdom

Mother's Day......

   Mother's Day is this Sunday, and I have been very lucky to have so many special ladies in my life to help me come the person I am today.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7New International Version (NIV)

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

When you see this verse you may think of a wedding.  But I have many ladies in my life that showed me this verse outside of the wedding and in life with everyone.  

Love is Patient ~ I have seen around me for many years clam ladies.  I watch things happened that were not planned and seen them turn to The Lord in Prayer right away.  I have learn by watching not to yell at my kids, or ones that I'm working with.  But when they are acting in a way that is not okay for what we are doing to keel down to their level and talk to them quietly.  And pull out of the Bible as much as I can. 

Love is Kind ~ I have seen people come in early, stay late, miss out on things because they maybe working in the kitchen.  Hold the door open for someone who hands are full.  Take a meal to a working mom and dad just because.  And from that we now have love on them days where we just show up at the church with a little goodies for them. 

Love does not envy ~ I have learn that it is great to be happy for others.  And we are called to do that. But we are called not to want what others have.  I'm thankful for the ladies in my life that help me remember not to envy others.  When the time comes and is needed to call me out on it, remind me.

Love does not boast ~ I learn that you do not run around doing good things and yelling about it to everyone to get pats on the back.  I have a hard time with just saying Thank you when someone does say something to me.  I try to brush it off.  

Love is not proud ~ I learn to do things not because it make myself look good or feel good.  Not to be happy for all the "GOOD" that I do, and how it makes people feel.  Or what people will say because of what I have done.  I'm not saying that you should not do things, but watch why you are doing them.  

Love does not dishonor others ~ I have learn not to gossip about others.  It so easy to get talking over coffee, and just like a wildfire so much can be lost.

Love is not self-seeking ~ You do not run away looking to what you will get out of this.  You put yourself a side and look at what you can a give, what others can get out of it.  How you can glorified The Lord.  You come in early and stay late.  You stay up all night with a kid who can not sleep.  You shovel your neighbor walkway just to make them smile.

Love is not easily angered ~ You do not yell and tell people what you think.  I learn and seen people seek wise counsel. That you should turn to God in prayer. And remembering  Proverbs 15:1                                                                                                        A gentle answer turns away wrath,                                                                   but a harsh word stirs up anger.

Love keeps no record of wrongs ~ I seen forgiven first hand, and what it should look like.  I seen second and third changes with no mention of pass wrong doing.  Maybe just as big if not bigger if you are the one that's done the wrong, right it and ask for forgiveness.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth ~ I have said many times to my kids, " I will not be mad, as long as you tell me the truth"  I praise others for going out of their way for others.  And at the same time of rejoices I learn to give thanks to The Lord.  

Love always protects ~ I learn that you do this but doing everything else from above.  By taking the extra time to make sure the car seat is in right, to stop the gossip.  To call and check on a friend after a hard day.  

Love always trusts ~ To be able to handout tasks to others and not checkup or go ahead and do it myself. I learn to watch myself and ask myself if it's about losing control.  If it's not about that then I have to go back to all of the above. 

Love always hopes ~ I seen others want nothing but the best for others.  Like a parent, wants nothing but the best.  But I'm thankful for all that have help me learn that as much hope as you have you need just as much if not more prayer.

Love always perseveres ~ I learn that you never give up, that you never walk away.  You keep going!  There are three ways to get out of the trial that you are in.  Pray that it goes away, pray that God will take you from it, or pray that God will get you through it.  

By all means I do not have it all together, and I'm still learn as I go.  This is just a small part of what I have learn from my Mom, Mama Beth, Sharon my step mom, Dixie my mother in love, My sisters, My Grandmas, my Aunts, my friends and many ladies from church.  Sometimes a lady from the store.  These are lessons that I have learn and hope to pass down to my kids.  Behind each lesson are memories, there is laughter, some tears, and more laughter.  There are memories that we will pull out when we teach the lesson to someone, or when we need the reminder our self.  We will remember they smiles, that saying that they always said.  And for that I'm so grateful for.  Thank you for all that have left their mark on my life.  I look forward to passing on all I have learn.